The Virtues of Blogging
As of late, my friends have been very busy – rewarding others and being rewarded themselves. I was very lucky to meet these friends through blogging – particularly over the last seven months during my posting of The Story of Ghassan and Alexandra. What they have brought to my life, are bright rays of sunshine and delightful reading at least weekly. I never imagined when I started blogging just over a year ago that it could be so rewarding. It has truly surprised me. It is a community which can quickly become very tight and interdependant in a most supportive way. And yet, outside of the blogosphere, away from the computer screen, each of us continues with our own separate lives. Some of the community have been fortunate enough to be able to bring the two worlds together. I would say they are very fortunate, in fact. There are many with whom I would dearly love to sit and sip tea and chat life.
I have to go back to November of last year. Well, actually before that. I wish I could remember exactly how I came upon his blog – probably through reading his comments on another blog. All I can say is that I’m so glad I found it. I have never read so much wisdom, depth, and insight coming from the mind of one so young. Yazan, on his blog On Olives and Sake, sees the world in such an intelligent and unique way. His ideas are often complex yet his writing flows so smoothly it settles in you like a soothing cup of tea. In trying to describe it here, I could never do it justice. I invite you, dear reader, to have a look for yourself. Yazan is also a writer for Global Voices and honoured me with a piece about The Story of Ghassan and Alexandra after I had written only a few chapters. For that I am eternally grateful, Yazan. Thank you.
Shortly after Yazan’s piece appeared on Global Voices, I was lucky enough to receive a few new readers, who eventually became people I could call friends. One of them was the enthusiastic Jillian. She commented after each chapter and was there to encourage me when I had fallen behind on my writing. Thank you, Jillian. Jillian has a wonderful blog on which she covers everything from politics, to culture, to personal perspectives on life. I visit often to Jillian C.York , her blog, but don’t comment as much as I should. Again, dear reader, you should take a meander through Jillian’s thoughts. I think you will find them most enjoyable.
The sweet and talented Gabriela made her first appearance after Part 6 of The Story of Ghassan and Alexandra, and became a close and fast friend. After discovering my site, she made an effort to go back and read as many posts as she could and to comment on them. This made such an impression on me, I naturally went to visit her site – Seis de enero (The 6th of January) and made the best of the Google translator (she writes in Spanish). Gabriela often writes about friends, and fellow bloggers – recommending their sites and enriching the blogging experience. Gabriela was recently interviewed by Global Voices for the role she plays in translating to Spanish for Global Voices and about her own blogging experience. The article is a great introduction to the woman who’s blog is a must read.
Dania, Yaser, and Fantasia also made themselves known over the course of the story and who’s blogs I’ve enjoyed visiting. Dania’s blog, My Chaos, covers everything from Syrian politics, to her astute thoughts on current events and life in general. Yaser has found a niche for himself by bringing us current events on the social and music scene in Damascus as well as advances in technology. Tajreed is a must visit to be up to date on the latest and greatest. Fantasia, who’s mind I greatly admire – she is forever thoughtful and analytical – introduced me to the most enticing and lovely erotica on her blog, Pillow Talk. Transcending vulgarity and domination, Fantasia’s writing brings a unique beauty to love making and sexual pleasure.
Last but definitely not least, I must extol the virtues of a friendship with the man who calls himself my #1 fan. Abu Fares, what would I do without you? Abu Fares has been with me since my first post on the blogosphere and has brought me so much support and delight. A more thoughtful, kind, and poetic man I have never met. Abu Fares’s blog, Abufares said…the world according to a Tartoussi…brings, unequivocally, the most rich, wise and intricate writing I have seen on the blogosphere. He has such a following that I’m not sure that I’m introducing him here but rather embracing an already well established voice on the Syrian blogosphere and beyond. Saying thank you doesn’t seem enough, Abu Fares, you’ve truly found a place in my heart.
I would never want to discount the anonymous or casual readers, or those without a blog (Katia). I appreciate your visits ever so much. I hope that, over time, we may come to know one another better. I also look forward to meeting more thoughtful writers and my hope is that I might draw them here not so much that they will read me but so that I can find out about them. What a small world we live in that we have been able to congregate and communicate and to build such a strong connection. But we do it with such diversity and individuality that in continues to be a fascinating and exciting place. My best to you all.
Mariyah









Thank you very much for you kind words. In fact, I have to thank Global Voices Online for that’s how I came across with your enriching blog. Syria and Peru might sound as distant places, but the blogsphere has allowed us to know each other virtually.
Thank you for taking the time to translate my posts with Google translation. I am well aware it’s not an exact nor 100% accurate tool, so I guess I have to be more than thankfiul for your effort.
And thanks too for letting me know that wonderful guy, Abufares.
Saludos especiales desde Lima, Peru.
Thank you for always being here, Gabriela. You always bring a smile to my face. I wish I knew Spanish so I didn’t need to translate…I would love to enjoy your posts as they were meant to be read. But I am very grateful for the technology that allows me to enjoy them at all. Saludos to you, my friend!
hi Mariyah, thanks for mentioning my humble blog, I sure appreciate it .
yalla keep blogging and we’ll keep reading:D
Ah, Yaser! Its a pleasure to see your comment! I will keep writing and, of course, reading wonderful blogs likes yours.
Sweetest Mariyah
Now that I have found my way to your heart I never want to leave.
I remember your very first post “Returning” published on June 5th, 2007. It took me a week to find it and I commented on it on June 12th.
I wrote:
Welcome back Mariya.
A universal story weaved with intimate letters and words.
And, welcome to blogsphere. Please register your blog at http://www.syplanet.com. It’s such a charming addition.
That was on stage. Behind the scene, I was really fascinated. How courageous and admirable of this woman to spill her emotions and feelings, her private story for everyone to read, I thought. I followed you from a distance, not too far off, not too close, just right to watch you moving gracefully from one magnificent piece of writing to the next. I read and re-read your profile time and again and my intrigue with your adorable personality and your inspirational talent kept growing day after day.
We have become such close friends since and you already know that I’m not only your number 1 fan but that you are my dearest friend as well. You have graced my life and turned the utter silence into wonderful music.
Out of the bunch, you are the most likely to publish one day and I almost feel that it’s my responsibility to stand behind you for 2 obvious reasons. First, you can’t be casual about your writing. You know that you have it in you and you mustn’t waste such a great gift with uncertainty. I won’t let you actually. The second reason is totally personal and selfish. By standing behind you, I am able to continuously enjoy watching the cutest butt I’ve ever laid eyes on, almost as perfect as your words if not more.
Weave your words Mariayh with a thread of gold and sway you body to the serenity of your own melody. The world is a much more beautiful place with you around.
Oh, Abufares, sometimes I don’t even know where to begin to comment on your comments. You have such an ability to leave me speechless. How lucky I was to have found your blog…or to have you find mine. You have brightened my world completely and having your support means everything. Thank you so much, my dear friend. I hope we both find ourselves published one day…the world can always use more Abufares.
My dearest Mariyah,
Thank you for the most wonderful mention, it’s an honor I dare not claim.
Your writing has moved me, times and times again. The scent of Jasmine will never leave this blog (even if you decided to change the name). Your writing is that of a beautiful soul, and I’m, in very little words, privileged to have come across your blog.
Yazan, my friend, what can I say but thank you…again! Its always such a pleasure to see you here.
Dear Mariyah,
I’m so honored to be mentioned here simply for commenting on your beautiful posts. I can’t thank you enough for putting a smile on my face through your blog.
Take care
Katia, I was always so pleased to see your comments…how could I not mention you!
Its nice to have you here any time.
Maya Angelou once said: “Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with shades of deeper meaning.”
Yet your words; that you have so generously shared with us, resonate with all the shadows, colours and luminescence of our world and the intricate song of the human heart. You have a true gift. I claim only to dabble, but as our wonderful friend (thank you for the introduction!) Abufares says so wisely above – you have what it takes to write a great novel…. or two … or three! Let me be greedy.
Thank you for your mention and for the rich compliment. I am humbled that one with talent like yours feels value in what I have to offer. I hope to see you there time and again. I appreciate that you took the time to see beyond the erotic and came to know the person beyond the tales. I look forward to more of our “off line” exchanges. You have a beautiful mind.
I agree that my “blogger” family has become precious in so many ways. My life enriched by their creative and sometimes witty prose. Mostly it is escapism like what I found in your tale that draws me to a site over and over again. I hope you will not leave me … us … long in our waiting of your next grand and glorious tale.
Fantasia, what a beautiful quote, and comment… and thank you for your support…always.
Oh Mariyah,
Thank you so much for mentioning me here. Thanks to the graces of Gmail, I was able to go back and figure out the day I discovered your blog (Nov. 9, Yazan sent me the link) – I remember reading through parts one through four, entirely enraptured by the story. I appreciate your writing, and more than that, your friendship!
Jillian, I’m so glad you found your way here!! Thank you.
I promise to read Ghassan & Alexandra very soon. I have often seen the new additions being posted on Syria Planet, and said to my self I’ll return to it later. I’m sure it will be an amazing journey to take during my short lunch time at work.
We need more bloggers like you, keep doing what you’re doing Mariyah.
Hello Omar! Welcome here. I’m so glad you came by. I really do hope you enjoy the story and I look forward to reading your blog…at first glance it looks very interesting! Thank you so much for your comment.
Greetings from Bulgaria! Awesome post. Shukran ktir!
Ruslan Trad, its nice to see you here. Welcome and thank you for your comment. I shall have a look at your blog too…
And I have to thank Gabriella for writing about your blog, and linking to it. I am glad I discovered so many great blogs from your posting here…wish I had more hours in my days!
Don’t we all, Scary Azeri! I’m so glad you dropped by and commented. Welcome!!
You can add this new blogger to your long list of fans. Great work.
Cheers.
Thank you so very much, Shoosar. Welcome here!!
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